How Long Should You Wait?

How long is the right time to wait before having sex?  There is no right or wrong answer to this question, you really have to do what is right for you both.  Some people meet online, then in person for the first time and within a few hours are back at his or her place making love on the floor…this works for some, many wind up happily married.  Then there are hook up apps like Tinder, grindr, 3ender for threesome’s and Pure where no chat is required just a  hook up for sex.

Steve Harvey has a book out on dating, in it he says you should not have sex for at least 90 days.  The reason for waiting?  He says it takes that long for a man to get his brain off “the cookie” as he calls it to start thinking about you as a person.  If you give the cookie away too soon that is all that will register in a mans brain, so to speak, and he will not take you seriously as a life partner.

You have to do what feels right for you, taking time to get to know each other first allows for a relationship to develop but having sex right away can be a lot of fun and also a good way to know what you are getting…


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