How Long Should You Wait?

How long is the right time to wait before having sex?  There is no right or wrong answer to this question, you really have to do what is right for you both.  Some people meet online, then in person for the first time and within a few hours are back at his or her place making love on the floor…this works for some, many wind up happily married.  Then there are hook up apps like Tinder, grindr, 3ender for threesome’s and Pure where no chat is required just a  hook up for sex.

Steve Harvey has a book out on dating, in it he says you should not have sex for at least 90 days.  The reason for waiting?  He says it takes that long for a man to get his brain off “the cookie” as he calls it to start thinking about you as a person.  If you give the cookie away too soon that is all that will register in a mans brain, so to speak, and he will not take you seriously as a life partner.

You have to do what feels right for you, taking time to get to know each other first allows for a relationship to develop but having sex right away can be a lot of fun and also a good way to know what you are getting…


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Last minute gift ideas for you both!

Still not sure what to get your partner?  Want to think outside the box?  Looking for something you know they will love and you both can appreciate? Here are a few of our top sellers that are guaranteed to put a smile on your partners face, and yours…
TOR 2 is the world’s first waterproof and rechargeable couples’ ring, boasting 100% more powerful vibrations than any product of its kind.  Worn by a man when making love, the smooth silicone design comfortably fits all sizes, bringing a long-lasting presence to him and amazing sensations for her.
Position Sex Bible  Packed with passion-igniting positions, The Position Sex Bible takes sex from predictable to over the top.  Whether couples are looking to break out of their same position rut or take their bedroom repertoire to the next level, this guide showcases every position available from simple to advanced, intimate to kinky.
The Tenga Egg Enjoy self pleasuring any time with the Tenga Lovers Egg.  A special gift for lovers everywhere, the Tenga Lovers Egg is a soft pleasure sleeve that warms to body temperature and allows the user complete control for incredible stimulation. Just peel off the outer layer and crack open the shell for a soft sleeve with a smooth pleasuring hearts texture for sensual stroking. The Lovers Egg expands drastically for a snug fit regardless of size.
Stronic Eins  “Stronic is the coolest sex toy of the 21st century” – Penthouse Magazine.  Stronic Drei is a pulsator, not a vibrator. It delivers thrusting motions (back and forth movements) as opposed to the buzz generated by vibrators. Stronic Drei is unisex (fit for anal or vaginal play.)
Stronic Zwei   Something for the both of you The Stronic Zwei provides a whole new kind of stimulation, as it massages the prostate or G-spot with 10 different back and forth motion patterns. This bad boy performs the naturalistic movements of love making.
Cobra Libre ll  Cobra Libre II – the penis massager. Sensitive, innovative, powerful.  The Cobra Libre II is the sex toy made for the head of the penis! This massager surrounds the tip of the penis with its soft, velvety interior made of medical-grade silicone.
Erotic Black and White  Experience sex like never before with our black and white rendition of erotic hardcore action.  For over 2 hours and 20 mins, watch our girls (Stephanie Cane, Italia Christie, Camryn Kiss, Katarina Kat, and Samira) do what they do best and take you to another level of sexual ecstasy. Get ready for pleasure in its purest form.


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Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm | The top erogenous zones for her

We showed you the top 10 erogenous zones for men and how to “treat” those zones with Kama Sutra Oil of Love…and now we are going to reveal the top 10 erogenous zones for women!

We have several products that are made to be used on the erogenous zones of the body… two of our favorites are Oil of Love and Pleasure Balm Sensations. We used Oil of Love in our tips for targeting his erogenous zones so we will use Pleasure Balm Sensations in our tips for targeting her erogenous zones- to mix things up.  Both products are excellent at heightening sensation in both his and her erogenous zones. Kama Sutra Oil of Love provides a sensual warming sensation on the skin while Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm Sensations provides an exciting cooling and tingling sensation on the skin. Choose which product to use based on what mood you’re in!

Pleasure Balm Sensations is a kissable, water-based body gel that gently cools and tingles on contact. It comes in five fresh flavors: Spearmint, Creme de Menthe, Strawberry Dreams, Raspberry Kiss and Lime Mojito. Our personal favorite is Spearmint because it feels extra tingly (and leaves you with fresh breath) !

To get the full experience of Pleasure Balm Sensations, we recommend following these steps:

- Apply a small amount (or more if desired) to an erogenous zone, gently blow on the area to feel the cool, tingly sensation (apply more Pleasure Balm if you don’t feel it yet), follow with kisses, enjoying the sweet, refreshing flavor…so grab your favorite flavor of Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm Sensations, and head to the bedroom! Follow our guide to her top erogenous zones step-by-step, starting at zone number one…

1. Feet- Start by massaging her feet. Surprisingly there are a lot of nerve endings here that supposedly connect to the sexual organs. Don’t use Pleasure Balm for this one, try one of our many massage products like Aromatics Massage Oil.

2. Lips- Smooth a dab of Kama Sutra Pleasure Balm on your lips, or hers, before you start kissing to make her lips tingle and really start to get her in the mood.

3. Neck- Work your way slowly down her neck, making sure there’s still Pleasure Balm on your lips and tongue.

4. Ears- Go back up to her ears and gently kiss/lick/nibble them, adding a little more Pleasure Balm to your lips if need be.

5. Wrists- Work your way back down her neck, over her collar bones to her wrists. Delicately hold her wrists down (if she’s into a little bit of submission) and kiss them.

6. Breasts- Gently rub Pleasure Balm onto her nipples, then softly blow on them to really make things tingle.

7. Behind the knees- Apply a little Pleasure Balm to this very sensitive area, gently blowing and then caressing her skin with your lips.

8. Butt- This zone can be stimulated at the same time as #9, her inner thighs. Gently squeeze, caress and massage her butt as you give some oral attention to her inner thighs.

9. Inner thighs- Dab Pleasure Balm on her inner thighs stopping just short of her bikini area. Follow with slow, sensual kisses up and down her thighs as you massage her butt at the same time.

10. Vagina- Eventually she won’t be able to take it anymore and you’ll reach the “jack pot”. With Pleasure Balm on your lips and tongue, gently caress her most sensitive areas with your mouth. She’ll love the exciting, cool, tingly sensation down there!

For a link to Pleasure Balm click here

Article by Marla Lee for Kama Sutra

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Kama Sutra Oil of Love | The top erogenous zones for him

1. Lips and mouth- Apply a light layer of Oil of Love to your lips before you start kissing him, he’ll be pleasantly surprised by the sweet flavor and warm sensation on his lips.

2. Neck- A few drops of Oil of Love on the back of his neck will make his spine tingle in a good way- gently blow on his neck then follow with sensual kisses.

3. Ears- Dab a few drops of Oil of Love on his ear lobes and gently blow, nibble and lick them.

4. Nipples- Apply a few drops of Oil of Love to his nipples and then trace them with your tongue in small circles.

5. Pubic Line- Trace a line of Oil of Love slowly back and forth just above his underwear line and just below his belly button, being careful not to touch any part of his package yet.

6. Inner Thighs- Trace a line of Oil of Love with your tongue in small circles on his inner thighs, working your way up from the knees towards his package.

7. Scrotum- Use your tongue or your fingers to gently rub Oil of Love onto his package in small circle, stopping every so often to lightly blow on the area and increase the warming sensation.

8. Perineum- Very gently apply a small drop of Oil of Love to the area just beneath his scrotum, then lightly flick the area with your tongue.

9. Fingers- Let his imagination run wild, have him apply a drop or two of Oil of Love to his middle or pointer finger, then give him a little preview of what’s in store for him next by slowly licking the oil off of his finger.

10. Penis- This one’s a given… Oil of Love can make this erogenous zone taste much better!

Kama Sutra Oil of Love click here for link

Article by Marla Lee for Kama Sutra

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Love and Sex?


Love and Sex, there was a time when they went together, love led to marriage which in turn led to sex.  Not anymore, in these days of casual sex, online sex, phone sex and even cyber sex where does love fit in?

It is not necessary to be in love or love the person you are having sex with but it is important to have a connection of some kind, whether it be sexual chemistry, a mutual agreement or an arrangement. We live in interesting times, Jersey Shore was one of the most popular shows on t.v, couples met in a bar, smooshed (had sex) with their friends in the bed beside them, also smooshing, then most of the time never saw the person again.  Not exactly how it went 50 years ago…

Whether you are in love or not, sex is available to you, its up to you whether love plays a role in it.

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Odor down there…

It has been said the vagina is like a self cleaning oven…it looks after cleaning itself.  Women are inundated with products to keep them clean “down there”, from douches to scented pads, it can be overwhelming.  It is easy to get caught up in the idea that au natural is not good enough anymore.

It is not recommended by most doctors to douche.  Not only does it change the delicate balance of the vaginal flora,  meaning it throws the good and bad bacteria in the vagina completely off, it can cause too much acidity in a healthy vagina.   Any changes can cause an over growth of bad bacteria which can lead to a yeast infection or bacterial vaginosis. Plus, if you have a vaginal infection, douching can push the bacteria causing the infection up into the uterus, fallopian  tubes, and ovaries.  Not fun, not something you want,  ever.

The best advice is to just leave it all alone down there and know during certain times of the month the flora is going to be different.  The only time to be concerned is if you have a strong odor that just won’t go away.  Go to your doctor, this is usually caused by a foreign object such as a tampon or piece of a condom getting left behind.

Showering or bathing daily should be enough to keep any girl as clean as she needs…careful which soap you use as highly perfumed soaps can cause irritation.  Eat healthy, what you eat can have an effect on your smell and taste.  Wipes are great during that time of the month or for a long day at the office.  If you are really concerned, try dabbing a small amount of perfume on your inner thighs to keep things smelling as sweet as a rose!

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The Vanilla Revolution

After nearly 2 years of Fifty Shades of Grey turning the sex toy tides and dominating the fantasies of millions everywhere, the folks at LELO are looking at their charts, facts and figures and seeing that 2014 has something totally different in store.  They currently are experiencing a shift in couples’ attitudes, moving away from the light BDSM gear that was so popular little over one year ago and towards sex toys that represent a longer-term investment in intimacy. LELO is dubbing this change in behavior the ‘Vanilla Revolution’.

Trends that further explain the Vanilla Revolution include: Sales of BDSM accessories such as whips and teasers reached a plateau in the last quarter of 2013 & sales of premium couples massagers and vibrating couples’ rings worn during intercourse increased by 82%

Couples’ massagers currently rule the day, and for the first time are topping LELO’s sales figures in over 20 international markets for 3 months running. For the uninitiated, a couples’ massager is one that is suited specifically to enhance foreplay or lovemaking, and does not feature a traditional phallic design typical of many sex toys.

A case in point is Tara one of their latest massagers that women wear during lovemaking to increase pleasure for both partners and the Luna Beads which enhance the feelings a woman experiences during foreplay.

According to the 2012/2013 Global Sex Survey, nearly 60% of couples had used sex toys together, and with the launch of their next Global Sex Survey starting in January, they hope to find out even more sexual wants, needs and habits of men and women everywhere.

To view our selection of LELO & other high end toys click here

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Three of the Best Couples Toys

Tiani 3 The Remote-controlled Couples’ Vibrator to Wear When Making Love…
Tiani 3 is the new and improved version of LELO’s original Red Dot Design Award-winning couples’ massager…worn by women when making love. The powerful vibrations provide targeted sensations to the clitoris, while the smooth silicone design gives ultimate pleasure and comfort. Waterproof, rechargeable and remote-controlled, Tiani 3 is the go-to LELO design for sharing simultaneous orgasms with your partner.

A unique device for triple the pleasure…The triple Stimulator for double penetration worn by the man! A multi-speed vibrating cock ring with an added flexible dong for double penetration.  The penis goes through the cock ring hole and is easily positioned for vaginal penetration. The second flexible jelly like dong can be inserted into the anus. To top it off there is a vibrating bullet on top for both penis and clitoral stimulation.

TOR 2 is the world’s first waterproof and rechargeable couples’ ring, boasting 100% more powerful vibrations than any product of its kind.  LELO’s original TOR was already the premium couples’ ring on the market, but now LELO’s designers have improved performance still further. Worn by a man when making love, the smooth silicone design comfortably fits all sizes, bringing a long-lasting presence to him and amazing sensations for her…

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Three of the Best Sex Toys Her

Stronic Eins Pulsator offers a whole new kind of stimulation – instead of vibrating, this new kind of toy pulsates with powerful waves which deliver a real treat especially at the lowest frequencies.
The powerful, naturalistic pulses are strong, unique but familiar as well. The innovative motor technology, in which solid metal moves in a hollow body, produces a pulsating, deep and thrusting rhythm

With brand new Circuitry, the Impulse Snow Bunny is more powerful, easier to use and even has an auto off feature to save on battery life! The Gold Standard of Premium, Dual-Action Sex Toys!
Special Features include a studded shaft that rotates with 10 different speeds and contains three rows of metal balls to enhance the vaginal walls.  The top of this vibe has a soft silicone tip for a smooth and sexy feel.  The clitoral silicone wriggling bunny also has 10 speeds of vibrating power along with 5 Hypersonic functions.  The clitoral stimulator is also different, it has two separate “ears” that are ideal for gently massaging your clit…

Paul & Paulina…These two are a special pair.  Always on the go and working for passion, they spread loads of intense joy thanks to their structured shafts.  With his sweet round snub nose, Paul unerringly finds the G-spot, while Paulina’s talent is stimulating the clitoris or anus.  Fans of anal pleasure will also quickly appreciate this fun pair, because Paulina gives Paul the necessary back-up while he pleasures the most secret of erotic zones.


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Three of the Best Sex Toys For Him

The Cobra Libre is the most revolutionary and talked about sex toy for men in years!  It’s not a simple masturbation sleeve, nor is it an ‘automatic stroker’. The Cobra Libre is the world’s first vibrator for men.
An amazingly designed sex toy that uses powerful internal engines that will make your penis go from 0 – 80 within seconds!  What does it feel like to have your penis inside the Cobra Libre? The sensation is incredible, but a little hard to describe (given that it’s like no other sensation on Earth). As soon as you switch the Cobra on, it’s as though your penis is suddenly lit up with some intense sexual charge. It’s a bit like that brief, but exquisite feeling you get when you’re very close to orgasm.

The Super Head Honcho is one of those toys that is a must for any guy or couple.   It has been said to be as good as a blow-job, making many women very happy…The Super Head Honcho is a silicone, male masturbator.  There are plenty of those around, but this one has some unique features. It is very tight but it is still stretchy. You lubricate the penis and the opening on the toy,  use lots of lube, then insert the penis into the toy. Inside, there are three suction cavities, and as you stroke the Super Head Honcho up and down, it creates a very pleasurable vacuum.  Because the silicone sleeve is so thick, it also gets nice and toasty in there. Plus it has the added bonus of being transparent, which makes the penis look huge. Guys like that, and they also like being able to see themselves ejaculate. What can we say? It’s a guy thing.

And now for something a little different, BILLY is a gentleman’s G-spot massager for those who wish to explore a more energetic sensation within…
Benefiting from an ergonomic design tailored precisely to the male form, he offers sustained control through five differing stimulation modes. Such versatility achieves breathtaking results, where vibrations may be kept mild during arousal, before increasing to the levels that excite his user most.

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